Save The Marriage System Review

Save The Marriage System is every couple’s guide to fixing and reviving their relationship, even if it seems way beyond the point of repair. And I know what you’re thinking, yeah right, I’ve heard that before. But not so quick. This system doesn’t require you to change who you are, what you look like, what has happened in the past or what you desire for the future. It works with who and where you are in your life right now. So, if you’re ready to Save The Marriage System, here’s what you can expect from this program.

Save The Marriage System Review

What is Save The Marriage System About?

This unique program forgoes the ineffective, irrelevant and out-dated methods that are often provided (ahem, recited) by marriage counsellors and instead, focuses on the crisis – the reason for you being where you are today. Save The Marriage System teaches you powerful techniques that allow you to identify the crisis that has brought your marriage to the place that it is today, whether it’s neglect, a lack of understanding, a mid-life crisis, dishonesty, etc.  Then, it provides you with an abundance of professional relationship advice, perspective, exercises and checklists to work through. The program is designed to isolate the path back from the verge of divorce and to transform it into a satisfying, fulfilling and passionate relationship for the both of you moving forward.

Save The Marriage System is incredibly comprehensive, leaving very few topics – if any, left untouched. And for almost every topic, there are some checklists and exercises you can do to ensure you are putting your newfound knowledge into action. After all, you can do all the reading you want but if you aren’t practicing it, your situation is unlikely to change. You have to put in the work and this program makes it easy and even enjoyable. Who knew fixing a marriage that’s on the verge of a divorce could be fun? You will actually enjoy learning the new perspectives and advice, and completing the exercises that are provided to you. I’ll dive into this in more detail in just a moment but first, it’s important to mention that the entire program is digital, so you receive immediate access as soon as you purchase. Not only that but you don’t have to worry about an awkward package showing up at your front doorstep for your spouse to find if this is something you’re doing on your own. Instead, you just download the content right onto your computer, laptop, tablet or smartphone and work through it at your own pace.

Save The Marriage System Download Page
How the download page for Dr. Lee Baucom’s Save The Marriage System looks like.

Now, if you’re convinced there is no saving your marriage, you have nothing to lose by giving it a try with Save The Marriage System as it does come with a 60 Day Money Back Guarantee.

Who is the Author of Save The Marriage System?

Dr. Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. is the creator of Save The Marriage System. He has worked as a marriage counsellor, expert relationship coach and marriage expert for over 22 years.

Quick Summary of Save The Marriage System

Save The Marriage System is a comprehensive guide to fixing your marriage by focusing on the techniques that have the highest success rates. It comes 5 different components that allow you to learn what to do and what not to do when your partner wants a divorce; how to identify the crisis and ways to save your marriage based on that, the inner workings of a successful marriage, including how to build a happy marriage and what affects marriages, as well as step-by-step methods for rebuilding your very own marriage. These components are:

  1. The eBook
  2. Top 5 Mistakes Report
  3. Quick Start Guide
  4. Down-N-Dirty Guide
  5. Dealing with Anger and Resentment Report
Save The Marriage System Table of Contents
The table of contents for Save The Marriage System PDF.

To give you an idea of what you can expect from the main program (the eBook), here’s a look at the topics covered:

  1. Why Traditional Couple Therapy Fails
    1. The Faulty Assumption
    2. An Example
    3. The Doomed Idea
    4. If Not Couple Therapy, Then What?
  2. Moving From You and Me to We
    1. Controlled/Controlling
    2. Under/Over functioning
    3. Power Struggles
    4. Your Turn (Check List)
    5. The Physics of Relating
    6. Your Turn (Checklist)
  3. Recipe of a Successful Marriage
    1. Accurate Perception
    2. Clear Communication
    3. Right Action
    4. The Interplay
    5. Pulling It Together
    6. Your Turn (Checklist)
    7. Exercise: Me, You, We
  4. Finding The North Star of Your Relationship
    1. False North Stars
    2. Finding a True North Star
    3. Your Turn (Checklist)
  5. 3 Simple Secrets to a Successful Marriage
    1. Secret #1: Giving Up on Arguing
    2. Secret #2: Focus on the Complementarity
    3. Secret #3: Make Decisions Based on What Is Good For The Relationship
  6. Create an Upward Cycle
    1. Shifting Momentum
    2. An Instant Shift
    3. Your Turn (Checklist)
  7. Don’t Ask Yourself Whether You Are Still In Love
    1. Why Not Emotions?
    2. So, What Should I Do?
    3. Your Turn (Checklist)
    4. When the Emotions Are Missing
    5. Reconnecting With The Emotions
    6. Your Turn (Checklist)
  8. Chapter 8: When Emotions Are Amiss
    1. Intimacy and Abandonment
    2. Between The Fears
    3. Dealing with The Mix
    4. Understanding Anger
    5. Your Turn (Checklist)
  9. We All Have a Paradigm
    1. So What’s The Tie-In?
    2. The Paradigm Problem
    3. A Paradigm of People’s Paradigms
    4. Your Turn (Checklist)
    5. Escaping the Paradigm Trap
    6. We Are All Doing The Best We Can
    7. We All Operate From Our Own Perspectives
    8. Doing To You Vs. Doing For Themselves
    9. What This Doesn’t Mean
  10. Boundaries: Where You Begin and End
    1. Boundaries and Standards
    2. Setting Boundaries in the Relationship
    3. Why Boundaries Are Important For You
    4. Boundaries and Standards Exercise
    5. Boundaries of the Relationship
  11. The Practices of Marriage
    1. Practice “Benefit Of The Doubt” Thinking
    2. Practice a Sense of Gratitude
    3. Practice Continual Forgiveness
  12. The Path to Intimacy
    1. Stage One: Pseudo-Intimacy
    2. Stage Two: Chaos
    3. Stage Three: Emptiness
    4. Stage Four: Intimacy
  13. High Mood Relating
    1. Focus on Options
  14. Living a Relationship In The Present
  15. Sex Is About We
    1. The Reality of Sexual Issues in Marriage
    2. The Energy of Sexuality
    3. A Different Approach
  16. Money, Power and We
    1. Freedom vs. Security
    2. The Role of Money in a Couple’s Life
    3. The Alternative View
    4. Two Keys to a New Perspective
    5. Exercise: Your Money Autobiography
  17. Don’t Just Grow; Evolve
    1. The Current View of Relationships
    2. A Paradigm View of Relationships
  18. Where Do I Go From Here?
    1. Relationship Coaching
    2. Teleclasses
    3. Books and Resources


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Advantages of the System

The one thing I absolutely loved about Save The Marriage System is how the author provides you with the information needed to repair your marriage, along with exercises and checklists for you to implement the techniques into your own relationship. It makes this unbearable and heart-breaking moment in your life more bearable and even enjoyable, especially when you see the methods starting to work on your spouse.

I also really liked having the program in digital format, as it allowed me to do the program at my own leisure and in confidence. And of course, the 60 Day Money Back Guarantee is a great feature as it gives you the boost needed to try something new to save your marriage. Often times, we think we need to pay a ton of money for optimal advice but such is not the case, and the world is taking on a more modern approach. So, being able to test it out was nice but I really can’t imagine anyone willingly giving this program back.

Disadvantages of the System

There is not one thing I could say that I didn’t enjoy about Save The Marriage System. It’s so comprehensive, conversational, well written and infused with quality content, techniques and exercises. However, there is a lot to read. I mean, that’s to be expected when trying to repair a marriage that’s heading towards divorce. But for that reason, it would be nice to have the option to download the program in audio files, so you can plug in some headphones and learn on the go.

The Verdict

What’s not to love about this program? If you’re heading towards divorce and considering counseling, you might as well do it for significantly cheaper than traditional therapy, and in the comfort of your own home and on your schedule.

Whether you’re on the verge of a divorce or are already halfway there, you can Save The Marriage System. Even if there was dishonesty, bankruptcies, mid-life crisis, affairs, deception or any other major issues that led to where you and your partner are today, your marriage can be saved. Not only that but it is worth saving. After all, you both vowed to love one another ‘til death do you apart. Unfortunately, easier said than done, right? Maybe not! You have two months to try it with the 60 Day Money Back Guarantee so you have nothing to lose.


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